Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Memorial Service

Thank you all so very much for your love and compassion, your generous offers to help during the last month and for sharing with us your fond memories and deep admiration for someone we cherish so dearly. Sharing our story with you has been so helpful for me personally; thank you Kura (Andy's wife - the BusyMama) for setting up this blog and to all of you for listening. In this dark and difficult moment, I don't feel isolated or alone but rather embraced by your warmth and love. It's a gift and helping me to put one foot in front of the other and keep my Cortisol (the 'fight or flight' hormone produced in times of stress) levels at bay for baby Laton.

At this time, in part because my travel window is coming to a close and I don't want to take any chances with his precious grandson, we are considering holding the memorial celebration on May 1 (or there about) in PA. His body will be cremated today and his ashes brought home. He did not want a viewing/funeral in the traditional sense, and we would like to remember him through his accomplishments, the ways he touched our lives and how much richer we are for having known him.

We will continue to share our story through his blog, how our lives evolve and we carry him with us as we move forward. We will share firm details of the memorial celebration here and through email as the information becomes available. I'm not sure we'll find a church large enough to hold us all!
Please continue to forward this information as you have been.
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3 comments:

  1. jcrispJanuary 12, 2011 at 10:53 AM

    We know Don would want you to do exactly what you are doing to keep Layton safe. John and I are devastated by the loss of our dear friend. The floodgate of tears and memories has opened and every little bit we think of something we did and how much we enjoyed our relationship through more than 35 years. We could write a book! It is some consolation to have had that month in Spain at this time last year. Now we wait to help Joanne in every way we can. People are asking us how to get messages to her and we don't know where it should be. If you have a preference let me know. Our hearts are full of grief and our loves goes out to all of you. Keep taking good care of yourself Kiersten and don't stop blogging, ?We need to keep in touch. Marge and John

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  2. Mike HopfJanuary 12, 2011 at 5:29 PM

    Although I did not know Don for long, he made a great impact on my life. I will fondly remember his wisdom and kindness. Please accept my sincere condolences and feel free to reach out to me if I can help you in any way.
    Sincerely,
    Mike

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  3. UnknownJanuary 12, 2011 at 8:25 PM

    Joanne, Kiersten, Andy and all families

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your mom and dad were so kind to missy when she went to Rutgers. I would always say Missy and your dad was the battle of the minds. I am so sorry for your loss. Please tell your mom I am thinking of her.
    Love toni

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